Blended families come with love, dynamics, and let’s be real—awkward moments. In the Black community, family is family—no “half” or “step” needed. But when outsiders start asking questions, how do you navigate boundaries, protect your peace, and keep the focus on the kids?

The truth is, there’s no perfect way—just what works for you. So, how do you handle those blended family moments? Let’s talk about it!

As a mom, balancing everyday tasks with parenting can feel like a tightrope walk—especially when it comes to screen time. But here's the truth: screen time in moderation isn’t the enemy. We all need moments of peace, and screens can help provide that. The key is finding balance. Whether it’s educational apps or a favorite show, a little screen time is okay, especially when it supports learning. Parenting is about progress, not perfection. So, let go of the guilt and embrace the balance that works for your family. After all, you’re doing your best—no one can ask for more than that!

Mom guilt is relentless—it creeps in when you take a moment for yourself, when you go out with friends, or even when your child spends time with their dad. We’ve been conditioned to believe that a “good mom” is always present, always selfless, and never in need of a break. But the truth is, balance isn’t selfish—it’s necessary.

This piece unpacks the myth of the perfect mother, the unrealistic expectations we place on ourselves, and the ways we can reclaim our time without guilt. Because the best mother isn’t the one who gives everything—she’s the one who knows that a happy, fulfilled mom raises a thriving child

Your baby’s first birthday is a milestone worth celebrating—but it doesn’t have to be overwhelming. From choosing a fun, personal theme to keeping the day simple and meaningful, this guide will help you plan a celebration that’s full of love, laughter, and unforgettable moments—without the stress.